How to love somebody?

Many of us must have thought to love somebody, we must show maximum care and concern; to be physically and mentally present to our special one; to possess the person's heart, mind and soul which would enable us to love totally.

i personally feel it is negatively correct. Doing so only fuels our personal ego. Letting us feel great that we are showing our special one love. In truth, we are being selfish as we satisfy our own emotions.

Showing too much care can make the other feel uncomfortable; physically and mentally present can be nuisance; possession of heart, mind and soul is just too possessive and an obsession of us to our special one...

What we should strive for is to give our special one happiness.

Happiness can be achieve through moderate care; not being there always but there is at least some form of communication for thoughts and feedback.

And if you truly love a person so dear, sometimes you just need to let the person go... to let the person enjoy the happiness that he/she just rightly deserves.

My first posting

Hello everybody,

Here's my first blog... well, i'm not be talking much about my personal life on this webspace... but will be mentioning more about life in general so that i'm able to share out with others more and more about life...